Saturday, April 4, 2009

Well, we have no pictures, but why not update??? Things have been much better here in the city that never sleeps since my last minute surprise trip home to Utah. Bryce is pretty burnt out on school and is doing all he can to just keep on trucking through until school is out. I can really tell he's burnt out because he has been spending alot more time with us and it's not because he has less home work.
We took the kids to see Monsters VS. Aliens last week and they baby did great. Averie kept asking when Monsters inc. was coming on so I think they need to rename the movie cause that is confusing for kids. She did like it though.
I was having a really hard time with Averie last week and was feeling so guilty cause I was thinking about giving her up for adoption (don't tell Bryce I said that, he got REALLY mad at me when I said it to him). Kidding of course but all kidding aside I was truly worried Averie was developing a serious hearing problem. She would say what to me like 5 times in a row every time I would talk to her and was watching the TV on full blast for like a week and a 1/2. She has been one grumpy little girl. I finally took her to the Dr. and she had a double ear infection. One side he said was really bad and covered in puss. The Dr. also said they don't like to treat infections with antibiotics after 2 yrs old. She has also had a cold now for about 2 months which drives me insane about NY cause Averie has been sick so much since we got here. She never even had a fever before we came. I went to the Vitamin Shop and loaded up on vitamins,probiotics, ecchinica and ear drops for her and she is feeling much better already, although she never complained of pain or feeling sick, her attitude shows how much better she feels. I feel really bad that I didn't know she was as sick as she was because she has never been sick and was acting fine besides the attitude. I thought she was just going through the terrible threes, but I guess it was just a terrible cold and ear infection. The day after I took her to the Dr. I noticed there was drainage all over her blanket on her bed. She never sleeps on her pillow or I may have noticed it sooner. Anyway, she's doing good and back to her old self. I just hope when the ear infection clears up all the way she starts talking and singing a little quieter cause man she's one loud little girl.
Pierson has reflux and is doing much better since I implemented the new plan of keeping him at a 30 degree angle after feedings. He still likes to wake up at random times when he should be sleeping but he's been giggling a little so I will forgive him. He is such a little guy. He has the cutest little tiny chicken legs. The biggest brown eyes and the sweetest sad scowl you ever did see.
As for me I have been trying to keep up with life. I am still realized that with each child I gain, I loose more of myself. I have to make a serious mental readjustment priority wise and realize I can't do many of the things I have enjoyed in the past years. It takes alot of focus on my part each day to remind myself my job in life right now is to BE A MOM and a good wife. Making Bryce happy makes me happy and the kids happy, & when the house is clean Bryce is happy, and when Daddy's happy, everyone is happy. I know that's not how the saying goes, but around our house, it's legit. A really clean house has never really been a priority of mine. But I am trying to change that and it actually feels pretty good.
It has been getting warmer which makes me a new woman. Parks and the sun bring out a long lost smile to my day and a sunny headache that does a woman good. I am getting so excited to pack up all the boots and coats, the gloves and scarves are already packed away. I got really sad the other night when I thought about leaving our apartment and the things I have come to love about the city. I will really miss all the new food we have come to love and the strange groceries you can get at any store. I will miss having to walk every where I go and all my wonderful friends we have made. I have recently gotten better at reaching out and talking to strangers which I have always hated doing and so I will miss the way NY has brought me out of my circle of comfort in life.
We are still in the dark about where we will be in the months to come. Plan A: go where ever Bryce gets a job offer. Plan B: move in with mom and dad until Bryce gets a job. We have come to accept that whatever happens will be fine and end up where we are supposed to be.
I am counting down the days to getting my husband back and sleeping somewhere a little more quiet with a little less smells. We are certainly excited for all our company to visit us, finishing out some fun last minute sight seeing, a trip to Palmyra, hopefully we will make it to Mexico and then possibly losing my husband again to working a 12 hour day. That's about all I know of the next 2 months of my life but I've become quite immune to no notice, no planning and last minute life changes. We are always so blessed I can't complain about short notice.
We sure will miss it here but we are sure excited to leave. I'll keep you all updated!!!!!

8 comments:

Kim said...

Hang in there, we miss you guys. Hope Averie starts feeling better. I have had Olivia's hearing checked 4 times, ear infections have ruined her ears. I feel for you. Keep us updated.
Love Ya Kim

Jamie Bowers said...

That sucks Averie has been so sick! I am glad I got to see you a few weeks ago. I miss you so much and secretly hope that you go with plan B :)

Chelsi Archibald said...

Oh poor little Averie, that is so tuff. Don't feel bad! As far as I've seen and heard you are the most attentive mother ever, hahaha. She is so adorable. I'm glad you guys will be moving back to our side of the country soon. Hang in there!

Rachel said...

Wow sounds like you've been busy there ya worker bee. Sorry to hear about Averie. But you have to be a crappy mom sometimes or she won't have anything to complain about when she's older...right? We can't wait for you guys to be done and see where life takes you next. My vote's for your parents. Anything wrong with managing Pizza Hut? I'm trying to convince Andy of the wonderful possibilities in that offer, as long as it's in St George. Love you!

Brittanny said...

I haven't checked in on the blog for a while...I am sad to hear about the ear infections. Those are the worst. And I hear ya on the unhappy husband unhappy family thing too. I do hope you all make it to Mexico after school...there is nothing in the world better. And I am anxious to hear what you all are going to do after school. Well, we miss you out here...and kiss Pierson and Averie for us...love ya

thebarrusfamily said...

Hey there! I know this is kinda lame but I don't have your e-mail address so I have some q's about a trip to New York. Jason and I are thinking of going in then next month or so. Is there a place that we definitely need to go or a hotel or restaurant? Is there a certain area that we should avoid staying? We were thinking of staying in the Crowne Plaza Times Square Manhattan hotel. Is that in a good location for tourists? Is there a Broadway we should see?

Many questions but I thought you would be a good travel agent for us.

If you have time will you let me know? My e-mail address is kambarrus@hotmail.com

Thanks Kamie

Tan said...

How about some new pics of the apartment???

{Emily Yeates} said...

I've looked at your blog a million times but the picture of averie in the elephant suit just caught my eye and I'm dying laughing- that's so cute!

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